Episode 11

January 27, 2026

00:34:25

Am I the A**hole? – Real Estate Edition, Firing a Buyer for Contacting the Seller Behind My Back

Am I the A**hole? – Real Estate Edition, Firing a Buyer for Contacting the Seller Behind My Back
️ Real Talk with Andres & Heather
Am I the A**hole? – Real Estate Edition, Firing a Buyer for Contacting the Seller Behind My Back

Jan 27 2026 | 00:34:25

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Show Notes

In this episode of Real Talk with Andres & Heather, we dive into a heated real-world scenario every agent dreads:

A buyer goes behind their agent’s back, contacts the seller directly on social media, undermines negotiations, then expects the agent to still write the offer — and cut their commission.

So… was the agent wrong for firing the buyer?

We break down:

  • Buyer representation boundaries and why they matter

  • Why direct buyer-to-seller contact can destroy negotiations

  • How poor expectation-setting leads to deal-killing behavior

  • When it’s appropriate (and professional) to fire a client

  • The difference between emotional reactions and contractual obligations

This episode isn’t about shaming anyone. It’s about real conversations, real consequences, and protecting your business, your boundaries, and your reputation as a real estate professional.

If you’re an agent who’s ever dealt with a nightmare client — or a buyer or seller who doesn’t fully understand the process — this one’s for you.

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**Disclaimer: This story is a fictional scenario created for discussion and education. It is not based on any real client, transaction, or individual. Any similarities are purely coincidental.*

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